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She Comes First - Ian Kerner

She Comes First

By Ian Kerner

  • Release Date: 2009-10-13
  • Genre: Self-Improvement
Score: 4
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"She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there." —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are "ill-cliterate." But in the pages of this must-read sex guide, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun, informative, and full of practical sex advice, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

This essential guide for men breaks down the art of female pleasure:
A New Philosophy of Sex: Discover why author and sex therapist Ian Kerner believes oral sex shouldn’t be foreplay, but “coreplay”—the center of mutual satisfaction.Guide to Cunnilingus: Learn dozens of tried-and-true techniques, moving beyond guesswork to master the art of pleasuring a woman every time.Understanding Female Anatomy: An easy-to-read breakdown of the clitoris, the G-spot, and the keys to the female orgasm, written to make you an expert.Better Sex Life: Move past performance anxiety and “ill-cliteracy” with a fun, informative, and shame-free approach to ensuring she comes first.

Reviews

  • Excellent!

    5
    By Tomato Yukota
    I have used these techniques with my partner and she always asks for more. keep practicing and reread this book if necessary!

  • Boner Appetite

    4
    By degrassiLover!
    The art of eating out. Very educational. I wish I areas this 35 years ago. I wouldn’t have gotten the “tap” from my wife. Complex routines to give her an orgasm. Seems hard to do but would be fun to practice!

  • One size doesn’t fit all; everyone woman is different

    3
    By nqobile2
    This book is overly verbose; and it presents its ideas as if all women orgasm to the same cunnilingual routine and all will enjoy the same set of techniques.

  • Good book, would make a better video.

    4
    By MizzouRam
    Liked the book a lot but it’s extremely hard to teach this subject matter via literature. I feel like I would have gotten more out of an instruction manual or something.

  • She comes first

    5
    By eager to please her #1
    I have read the e-book . Then bought the hardback book completely read it marked pages highlighted thanks. Read it completely. Then went back and re-read all the things I highlighted in Pages I folded over and Marked .This is absolutely the best book I ever picked up I learned so much from it. It is truly what it says “ if she comes first she will come forever”.

  • A Must Read For Both Men And Women

    5
    By ABORNKING
    I haven't completed many books in my life maybe because I'm not much of a reader. I began reading this book because honestly I enjoy giving oral sex, my wife coached me to help me be better at the act itself. This book takes it to another level, it perfects the art and breaks it down. It was a dope read for me, I'll highly recommend it for this interested in being more then just penetration to their spouse. 😊📝✅

  • Full of useless information, cheesy puns and information from more informative books

    1
    By noro26
    In all fairness this book has some good material but not anything new. The entire part 1 of the book just hammers in that oral sex is good, yes we get it, move on to something useful. The stuff you'd want to read or know about is scattered between quips that a middle schooler would find immature, and information that isn't needed. There is a part where the author spends several pages explaining that certain sexual positions are impractical or uncomfortable... He mentions that there are better alternatives to 69ing then spends pages talking about 69ing and why it's not so great without giving you an alternative. Bottom line, this book could have been much much shorter but the author did his best to cram it full of cringeworthy lines to make it seem longer and perhaps more legitimate. Pick one of the many books he uses as references and quotes from

  • Fanstatic!

    5
    By Ekagrah
    I struggle as the author says he struggles with sexual dysfunction, this book helped me to forget that and satisfy the love of my life! I would absolutely recommend this to every man, especially those who feel inadequate my cultural definitions of what it takes to be great in bed! Practice the mentality and techniques that are contained in this book and there will be greater mutual satisfaction and enjoyment!

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